Obtaining The Queen’s Approval
When joining the royal family, you must obtain the Queen’s consent. Although Harry was captivated with Meghan, he sought her permission because that is how a new family member is accepted. Obviously, joining the royal family requires the matriarch’s approval. She runs the entire show, so Meghan couldn’t get in unless the Queen liked her and thought she was a good symbol of their family values.

Obtaining The Queen’s Approval