19. I Was The Homewrecker
I briefly became the “other” woman without knowing it while grieving my sibling’s unexpected passing. I met a fun, busy guy, which suited my desire for something non-serious. After four months, I discovered he was married with small children when a coworker asked about his wife at a bar. I confronted him privately and then ghosted him, unable to handle the fallout due to my own stress and grief. Though I considered contacting his wife, I chose not to play relationship police. Five years later, I still feel terrible for her and sometimes wonder if I should tell her, but I’m unsure if it’s the right move.
20. Crazy Coincidence
In the early 90s, before the internet, my fiancée Meg went to Belgium for an internship while I stayed back to set up our future home. Two weeks before her return, I discovered my childhood neighbor Claire working at a nearby coffee house. Claire was also engaged to a man named Ben, who was interning in Belgium. Claire soon learned from her Aunt Sue, who had seen Ben in Prague with a woman named Meg, that Ben and Meg had been seeing each other throughout their internships. I confronted Meg, who admitted to the affair. Claire had already thrown Ben’s belongings on the lawn, and I picked Meg up from the airport only to tell her our friends knew what she had done and that I never wanted to see her again. Remarkably, Meg and Ben later married and divorced after he cheated on her. The universe works in mysterious ways.